i am a huge fan of the show Sex in the City. i actually wish it was still in production, so i could continue to watch it. the characters were great, the premise was fun, and it was sheer entertainment. i remember telling a guy friend when i was watching this series, maybe i should chuck all my morals and screw around? my guy friend totally concured with this idea. no surprise there.
i am not in the business of seeing how many marks i can carve into my bedpost, but i will admit that having a standard is rather lonely. i wake up alone and go to bed alone. hit repeat a thousand times and start over. i am in the driest desert with no oasis in sight.
casual sex is something i have never been able to wrap my head around. i think that this might be something that is harder for women, since a good majority of us include our feelings when sharing our bodies. you can probably exclude prostitutes and porn stars from this statement. i have never been a prositute or a porn star so i don't really know how they view sex, but i'm guessing it is different than mine.
i had a discussion about this with my friend joe once. his thought is everyone needs a genital handshake now and then. after i choked, cleared my throat, and regained my composure i laughed until my sides hurt. my laughter was met with a blank stare. obviously we have a different view, but in a way there is some validity to this.
joe's thought reminds of having a friend with benefits. yes i did just watch the movie, predictable but kept my attention. it may have been the repeated scenes of a half dressed justin timberlake. or maybe the oscar winning performances? oh who am i kidding? of course it was justin timberlake. anyway, this idea is somewhat intriguing and hollywood definitely makes it look appealing, but i have learned that real life rarely imitates the big screen.
i do have a guy friend that i wouldn't mind having some benefits with. without revealing his identity (he will know it's him if he reads this), i will give you some stats; funny as hell, sexy, smart, and has beautiful teeth. the problem. he has a lady in his life. i would never interfere with that, but if he didn't have a lady you can bet your sweet bippy i would be the first in line.
so what's a moral gal like me to do? i could never be a samantha. having sex as a "hobby" isn't part of my plans. i don't think i could ever be a nun. swearing off men sounds like death, besides the convent wouldn't want me. i guess i fall somewhere in the middle on the spectrum, lonely single girl with extra batteries. insert wink.
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