devilishly handsome...

the laws of attraction are different for every human.  we tend to place a boat load of value on the packaging.  i am guilty to a degree.  my preferences have matured through the years, but there are still some traits (mouth, eyes and hair) that i have always been drawn to.  i still drool and swoon over men i find to be devilishly handsome, much like a teenager who plasters their walls with posters of their crush. 

 

corey haim was my first real crush.  in my tree fort i had many posters from teen magazine tacked all over the paint splattered walls.  during my early teen years i found him to be devilishly handsome, maybe because he hung his mouth open all the time like i did.  i used to be one of those horrendous mouth breathing trolls before surgery and here was this movie star who appeared to be a mouth breathing troll too.  coincidence?  who knows, but i can remember staring at his posters in the fort.  always positioning myself so i had a good view of corey.   

i am still really drawn to a man's mouth.  teeth are important.  i have never found a man with a mouth full of chiclets for teeth attractive.  i would prefer a man with dentures over a man with jacked up teeth.   i love a man who is easy to smile, but a coy smirk works for me too.  those great teeth should be concealed behind a pair of kissable full lips.  there is just something about the way a man moves his lips that starts my engine.

next thing i seem to notice straight away is a man's eyes.  as an adult i have been very drawn to blue eyes.  as you can see from corey's picture he is not a blue eyed fella, maybe this is why my teenage crush didn't last very long.  i love blue eyes.  the men i have been most attracted to have a twinkle in their eye.  it is hard to explain, but their eyes are playful, spirited, mischievous, alluring, and above all they draw me in.  there are some eyes that i can get lost in and lose track of time.  oh my goodness to get lost in a man's eyes is heavenly. 

hair.  i have always been drawn to dark haired men.  a man with thick, kind of messy hair is preferred.  i tend to really like the "just pleasured" hairdo.  maybe it's because i can picture my hands wrapped up in that hair.  or maybe because it is a very casual not trying to hard type of look.  whatever the case, i love a man with thick dark hair.

so there you have it the physical features i am drawn to.  it is important to me to be physically attracted to my partner.  i want to feel like i need to rip his clothes off at any given moment.  however, if there isn't a brain hiding beneath that glorious hair or intelligent words formed by those delicious lips it isn't going to work for me.  i place greater value on intelligence, creativity and character than i do on the packaging.