what kind of single woman are you? i'm not really sure why this is coming up today, but i woke up with this thought. outside of a few flings here and there i have been relatively single for the past three years. throughout that time i have had the opportunity to see other single women and how they portray themselves in the hopes of attracting a man. i say portray because i think we put an image out there, an enhanced version of our true self, all in the name of love.
there are three categories that i think we fall into, there is probably more, but these are three that come to mind quickly. we have the damsel in distress, the ultimate caregiver, and the town tramp. let's break this down...
damsel in distress: we as women know that men are hard wired to be fixers. they see a problem and they can't help but try and find a solution. this type of woman is always in need. this woman treats this man as if he is invaluable to them. that they couldn't possibly survive if they didn't have the assistance of this man. i think we all want to feel wanted, and a man will definitely feel appreciated and needed if he entangles himself with the damsel.
ultimate caregiver: women are hard wired to be caregivers. i think some women are better at this than others, but we all have it. this type of woman gets off taking care of and pleasing her man. the man who entangles themselves with the caregiver will be doted on. if he plays his cards right (meaning he lets his woman know how much he appreciates the doting), he can expect to reap that benefit forever.
town tramp: women aren't that different from men in the sense that we all need some lovin'. to feel sexy and desired is vital to our self image regardless of gender. this type of woman teeters around dripping sex, exuding her prowess in how she can please you in the bedroom. i can only imagine that the man who entangles himself with this woman will be satisfied in his private time with her, but i'm going to suggest "gloving up" until the test results come back.
so, which category do you fall in to?
i fall into the caregiver category. it is no secret that i enjoy taking care of the special person in my life, the trick is finding someone who shows that they appreciate it. i have never been the damsel, i accredit that to my mom. as a youth i did chores that would be considered boy jobs the outside of the house stuff, i learned how to use a hammer, shovel, saw and power tools (not the personal kind folks). i feel i am pretty self sufficient unless we are talking automotive and then i am clueless. the town tramp, well not exactly my cup of tea, i would prefer to share myself with one man consistently.
at the end of the day it is all about balance. whichever type of woman you are, there is a man who will thrive with you. there is a small catch ladies, do not change who you are once you have them. meaning, if you are the damsel then be the damsel, this is one of the reasons he fell for you in the first place. i suppose there should be a little clarification as to the town tramp, if this is you, be the wonderfully adventurous sex kitten with just your man, he will love it.
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